This is for both men and women, dealing with a one way relationship, which really kinda sucks. Just change the "him = her" or "girl = boy" or "man = woman" or "his = hers" and etc. AH u know what I mean :D
"i've been thinking alot,
so what is the point of being in a relationship when you're not gonna give it your all
yes taking it slow is good, bt having to hold back what you feel bout someone else just because you're afraid of gettin hurt sucks.
one sided relationships are never fun.it hurts, and always will hurt
so what if the person we're with in a relationship with is there with us 24/7 when his heart aint there for us as well.
we don't want a person to be there just physically for us.
if we wanted that then we could hv gotten ourselves into a relationship with any random person on the street.
why bother going through all the trouble just to find mr right?
if a person is really interested in you, he'd make an effort to know bout your day.
or at least let you know how his day was/how he feels
he'd share his feelings
yea i know some guys dont share/tell their emotions or how they feel often enough,
but how else would the girl know that you missed her/been thinking of her if you don't tell her.
just like how guys complain saying that girls are difficult to understand/that they can't read our mind.we can't read yours either.
actions does speak louder than words
but sometimes action's not enough.
frustration
esp when one choose not to open up,
coz it feels like whatever we're doing is not right
and regardless of what we do,
though we have you standing right infront of us,
it feels distant
if you're not that into a girl, let her go, just please let her go.
coz everytime she's about to give up, you give her hope, then shatter it,
yea i know it'll hurt real much when relationships turns out differently than what you've expected, but i rather go tru the pain than having to regret and think that the relationship ended because i didn't give it my all.
at least i know i've tried my best.
been hearing stuff
been thinking about stuff
then the cold reality hits ya
but it doesn't really matter does it
because the heart refuses to believe it
the furthest distance you can hv in a relationship isn't when you're physically apart and you can't see eachother.
it's when you know how you feel bout the person you like, and have to pretend that you dont really care bout them.
ps: no it's not for a particular someone, just my 2 cents bout one sided relationship."
So dont say ALL men are always like this!Only some of them. AND women can be like this to men too!oooooooohhhhhh cooollllddd~~~~ lolz
Quoted this from my friends blog : memoriesmelange.blogspot.com
Even a stepping stone before a relationship is difficult. Getting to know someone deeply before starting a relationship is even harder, if one is to take that person seriously by considering all the factors.
ReplyDelete1) Being physically there is important, but worst if your minds are not together, or looking at the same direction. I agree with u. Being so close to someone, yet so far...really sucks.
2) If that person wants to be in a relationship or turn over a new leaf in the first place, he/she has to leave her past behind...knowing that bad memories gives a lesson, good ones are to stay forever. But if she/he is not willing to do it, then dun bother getting into it...
3) If it was a fling after all, dun bother putting all your hopes and effort in it, cos you'll end up in tears. The higher u go, the harder the fall. I believe that if it wasn't a fling in the first place, partners should give it all they've got, but always be on guard...we might not know what happens, when disaster strikes...
4) Get your feelings right. Want it or not? Willing to make a commitment? If you're thinking of "Let us slow down, and see how things goes ok", that shows that you're not even prepared to be in a relationship. *Applies for certain conditions ok, not all* If yes, then go do it and stop wasting ppl's fking time. Good guys won't waste time on such ppl like you. We may have not much exp, but we learn thru ppl's mistakes and not to repeat them in the future.